BARKADA.

•  RICH KID - Mayaman. Maluho. Lahat ay binigay na sa kanila ng kanilang mga magulang. Lapitin ito lalo na ng mga ‘user’friends. Dalawang klase ang mga rich kids. Yung tipong pinagyayabang ang yaman sa barkada at yung humble lang pero swabe ang pa-ambon ng kanilang yaman sa barkada. Ang madalas mong maririnig kung ika’y isang rich kid? “Palibre naman”.

• MUSE/ESCORT - Sa bawat barkada meron isang taong saksakan ng gwapo o ganda. The Face of the Group. Gwapo/Maganda. Malakas ang dating. Madalas napagkakamalang ‘head’ ng barkada. 

• THE ‘PROBLEM’ KID - Sila yung mga loko-loko. Mga B.I. kumbaga. Pero masarap at masaya silang kasama. Asahan mong mapapasubo ka sa kalokohan kung kasama mo sila. Sila yung mga ‘adventurous’, ayaw magpatali sa mga patakaran dito sa mundo.

• THE ‘PROBLEMATIC’ KID - Sila yung parating may issue sa isang bagay. Parating umiiyak. Parating may problema. Sa buhay pagibig man, pamilya o sa ibang bagay. Pero, wala namang choice ang barkada kundi damayan sila.

• JOKERS - Ang mga Jokers ang pinakamahirap hanapin na type ng kabarkada. Dahil ang pagiging joker ay hindi natututunan, innate ito. Kung pinanganak kang ‘Joker’, pinanganak kang bebenta sa tao. Kahit konting hirit mo lang, utas na ang barkada kakatawa. Ang matatawag mong isang masayang barkada ay kinakailangan ng at least isang joker.

• ANG ‘TANGA’ - Sila yung parating ‘asar-talo’ sa barkada. Parating barado, parating tablado. Sila yung mga korni humirit. Sila yung mga failed ‘jokers’. Pero masisigurado mong mahal sila ng barkada at walang ibang pwedeng tumawag sa kanila ng “Tanga!” kundi ang barkada lamang.

• PAPARAZZI - Alam nila lahat ng bango at baho ng bawat isa sa barkada. Alam lahat ng issue, sikreto. Sila yung ubod ng daldal. Pero napapasarap ang usapan kapag kasama sila. Sila yung parating may hawak ng camera kapag may lakad ang barkada, in-charge sa picture-picture. They know everything about everyone.

• THE ‘COUPLE’ - Hindi lahat ng barkada meron nito. Sila yung Nanay at Tatay ng Grupo. Minsan may mga sariling mundo. Madalas maasar ng barkada ng “Maghihiwalay din kayo!”.Ngunit kung magkaalitan o maghiwalay man sila? Humanda ka na. Apektado ang buong grupo.

Ako yung Problem Joker. HAHHA. Pwede na yun.

15 MUST-KNOW FACTS ABOUT BOYS.

15 MUST-KNOW FACTS ABOUT BOYS.

1. Madali kaming mag-selos - Hindi naman nawawala sa lalaki ang mabilis na pagseselos. Hindi mawawala saming mga lalaki ang magselos.
2. Umiiyak din kami - Madami kasing tao ang inaakalang hindi kami umiiyak kapag nagkakaroon ng away o LQ.
3. Nauubusan din kami ng pera - Hindi purki’t kami ang labas ng labas ng pera eh, mayaman na kami at hindi kami nauubusan ng pera.
4. Mahilig kami sa Online Game - Tanggapin nyo na, na hindi mawawala samin ang mawili sa mga online games (esp: Dota).
5. Kapag tumahimik kami, madalas may nararamdaman kami - Nahihiya lang kaming magsalita ng hinanakit o nararamdaman namin. Pero madalas nasasaktan din naman kami, kung si Superman nga may kahinaan, pano pa kaya kami?
6. Gusto namin na nilalambing kami -Kailangan naman nilalambing nyo kami, lalo na kapag nagkakaroon tayo ng away, hindi yung lagi nalang kami ng kami.
7. Gusto naming pinagluluto kami -Madalas kasi kaming mag daydream kaya, iisipin namin kayo na ang FM (Future Misis) namin.
8. Gusto naming kinakantahan kami -Lalo na kapag wala kami sa mood, na tanging boses nyo lang ang makakapagpa-kalma sa amin.
9. Hindi pa talaga kami maliligo, kapag sinabi namin na “maliligo na ako.” - Karamihan sa’ming mga lalaki ganyan. Do I need to elaborate this?
10. Nawawala rin kami sa mood - Hindi lang babae ang pwedeng mawala sa mood, isipin nyo rin naman kaming mga lalaki. Paano nalang pala kung nireregla rin pala kami?
11. Palabiro kami - Kaya kung may masabi man kaming hindi maganda o hindi ganoong kanais-nais pagpapasensyahan nyo naman kami.
12. Hindi nyo mawawala sa’min ang pagka-Vain - Yung pagtingin tingin namin sa salamin o pag-aayos namin. Syempre nacoconcious din kami sa iisipin ng ibang tao sa’min.
13. Mahilig din kaming makinig ng love songs - Kaya wag nyo namang iisipin na bakla kami dahil nakikinig kami ng love songs. Madalas yun ang nagpapakalma sa’min.
14. May insecurities din kami -Kaya wag nyo kaagad kaming jinujudge dahil sa mga nakikita nyo sa amin. O kung napapaisip kami ng hindi maganda.
15. Kapag inaasar namin ang mga babae madalas may gusto kami sakanya -Kaya wag kayong nagagalit kapag inaasar namin kayo :p

This is how I fell in love with you:

This is how I fell in love with you:

First, it was your smile: 
I couldn’t get that spark in your eye out of my mind — like starlight, twinkling on the midnight haze of thoughts. Glimmering light, showing me something I couldn’t see before — love? I can’t explain, but I could feel…

Second, it was your voice: 
Soothing, smooth, piercing. It reached through my ears, and touched a place deep-seated in me — something I thought I had buried with years of practiced indifference. Music and melody took a whole new spectrum…

Third, it was your scent: 
It reminded me of the morning dew and the bittersweet scent of acid rain — powerful, yet subtle as nature itself. Childhood memories burst forth and I imagined bubbles, popping. There was also the sweet aroma of the mountains…

Fourth, it was your touch: 
How I wanted to hold your hand, our fingers clasped around each other in a microcosmic embrace — a union of flesh and flesh, yet distinct. The chemistry, undeniable once the spark reached through the skin, just as your eyes pierced…

Fifth, it was your taste: 
Nevermind the earthen whiff of your hair or the silence that accompanied your slow breath — a soft kiss upon your cheek. My lips were overwhelmed by saline and sweet. Cheese and chocolate, bread and jam — something beyond the faint lingering of breakfast, lunch, or dinner…

This is how I fell in love with you:

Sixth, it was the commonality: 
How you seemed to make me smile with the same tactics I use on you. How we share even the little things. We didn’t mind what few interests kept us talking to each other — we just did. We made each other feel different, and that is what made us the same…

Seventh, it was the memory: 
How we used to be just friends or didn’t know what we were doing. Nobody knew, we used to say — we were in on the secret the first time we admitted. That night when we finally reclaimed passion. It was a risk — we both knew it would change everything…

This is how I fell in love with you:

Eighth, it was the negativity: 
Passion in anger, passion in grief. We drifted away from each other, but knew there was still something that bound us together. The hurt and the pain cemented our humanity, and reaffirmed our imperfections. It was the reversal that kept us moving forward…

This is how I fell in love with you:

Ninth, it was the thought of love: 
Because I thought I loved you. Because I thought I could. There is a bond between us, but could we call it love? Love is relative, we would tel each other. Yet we loved each other. Yet we thought we did love each other…

This is how I fell in love with you:

Tenth, I didn’t.

Entries of an Imaginary Alter-Ego. 30-03-2011

Usapang Ulcer.

ME: ayoko nga eeh. Claiming Acts 3:16. Sabi nga, pag di nawala from kahapon. pa-check up ako. Mas masakit kahapon. Ngayon, kirot-kirot nalang. Talagang mas masakit pag past pero habang tumatagal, nakakamove on na din ako sa sakit. :D

ATE CLARIZ: .Yan ka na naman, DYAN ka magaling eh. gumawa ka ng paraan para mawala ang kirot, wag mo yaan magstay. Mas sasakit yan. Wag mo isipin. gamutin mo ang kirot ng kahapon.

ME: Eh time heals all wounds. Maghahanap ako ng remedy. Yung tipong makakapagbigay sa akin ng joy sa aking pakiramdam. Pagpray mo nalang ako. Da't ttext kita na di ako magsisimba kaso pinaplantsa ko na yung Christlikeness ko. I care for the kids, kaso the spirit is willing but the body is weak.

ATE CLARIZ: Andun si Yanyan. Sya nagtuturo. Basta wag ka na pumunta. Rest ka nalang. Maaaya ka na naman eh. Pwede ako sundin mo ngayon? Complete bed rest need mo.

ME: CBR ang tawag dun *complete bed rest. sige, papacheck up na ako.

ATE CLARIZ: Sa utak? Oo. Hehe! Joke! Wag mo na yaan lumala yan. Cge na, pahinga ka na. Okay?

ME: Hindi sa puso. :)))) Minsan kas, hinahayaan lang natin, kaya lumalala. Pero minsan naman, pag nawala hinahanap hanap natin, kaya doon lamang tayo nagpapatingin. So, hayaan na lang natin. Buksa sabi ko kay Lola, pag meron padn, pachrck up na.

 *usapan namin dahil sa Ulcer ko. Pero halatang may pinaghuhugutan yung mga sinasabi namin. HAHAHAH. Enjoy ako kahit may sakit ako. HAHAHA. Pagaling na ako nang pagaling. Yey !

Loving you through the phone.

Loving you through the phone.

The hardest part is always wanting to be with each other. But the only thing that makes it easier, is using every alternative method there is to be together. Phone, webcamming, etc. Settling for what we have at the moment pays off in the end though.

It’s a test. Seeing how much we really want to be together. Whether we want to enough, to be patient and deal with all the bullshit that happens before the next time we see each other, or finding out that it was all just a waste of time and effort. I don’t want it to be a waste of time. I don’t think you do either. 

But until then, I’ll be happy with what we can have right now. Because a little bit of something is better than a whole lot of nothing. And a little bit of something means a whole lot of everything if it’s with you. 

The playful relationships.

The playful relationships.

I’ve always wanted one of these because of the level of comfortability. You’re both being yourself around each other, not giving a single care. You know everyone will probably be watching, but it feels like it’s only you two. She fears that she might end up in that water. He’s doing these little gestures to trick her and hear her little voice whine. He’s enjoying every minute of holding her and making her feel unsafe but safe at the same time. She knows he would never do it, but she’s still scared.

Just like how they’re both scared that one day, the other person might end up walking away.

Dear Future Wife,

Dear Future Wife,

I don’t know where you are right now. I don’t know how you look like. I don’t know how you laugh, or how you even cry. You’re probably with someone else right now. Or you might be alone just like me. I don’t know when our paths will cross. I don’t know when we can walk on the beach together, then watch stars at night after and wait for a shooting star (and wish for forever if we see one, btw I’ve never seen a shooting star yet). We’ll sleep under the moonlight. We’ll watch the sunrise. I’ll cook breakfast for you. If we have kids, we’ll still do these things with them. We’ll go to church as a family, have a picnic after. I’ll teach them how to fly kites. You’ll teach them how to sing, or dance, or draw.

The list can go on forever. But I don’t know when these will happen. I’ll wait anyway. For now, all I can do is wait for you. And I’ll wait patiently for you. I know you’ll be worth the wait.

Love,

Your Future Husband