Everyone needs someone to talk to.

Just be there when someone feels lonely.

 You may not give an advice. You may not give reactions. You may not give an ice cream for feelings to get better. You may not give jokes to laugh off the situation. But being there when it matters, is all that matters.

Just be there. Sit beside that someone. Just listen. Then give a hug.

That’s it. It’s what comforting does. It spreads love. Making sure that someone who is very depressed and feels like the whole world is crashing down needs to be cheered. To be spirit-lifted. To feel that someone still cares and loves. And the world is not going to end. That we still have sunrises when we sunsets. And letting go means having something better. That goodbyes lead to new hellos. And endings are start of new beginnings. That when a door closes a window opens.

Just be there. And help someone take a step to move on. And SMILE.

Because happiness is contagious. That optimism is still a better idea. That smiling triggers happy chemicals from the brain to the body. That you are always ready to cheer someone up. To make someone feel that they’re on top of the world. That together you’ll stand. To encourage them that they’ve got so far. To never give them the options to surrender. For them to never give up. That they shape their life all they have to do is to be firm and face the world. That all they have to do is to keep holding on.

Just be there. Be by their side. And make someone feel that they’re not alone.

To let go or not to let go ?

Let go. Hold on.

 Ayaw ko magpost ng isang post na naglalaman ng let go topics. Yun tipong bakit, paano, sino, kailan ka naglelet go. Ayoko lang MUNA. Kasi nakakadepress. Oo, ieexpress mo nga, pero para sa akin, irerefresh ko lang muna kasi lahat. Since, ayaw ko siya maalala sa kahit anong paraan, hindi ko muna siya ibloblog. Pag, okay na ako. Mga bukas ganon. Okay na yun.

 All we need is a break.

 Kasi naman, niLET GO mo, tapos sasabihin sa iyo, hindi ka mahal. Kasalanan mo pa. Kung mahal mo siya, di mo siya hahayaan mapunta sa iba. Kung mahal siya let go daw. Kasi mahal mo eh. Hahayaan mo siya sumaya sa iba at di mo siya makakayang makita na nasasaktan. So, LET GO. Mahal mo e.

 Tapos, kapag KINEEP mo. Aba, abuso ka na. Nakakasakal. Di ka na nga mahal, pinipilit mo pa, wala na daw love ganon. Wag nang ipilit. Pag di na masaya, hayaan mo na. Bakit pa daw itatago, bakit pa ikekeep eh wala na din naman value. Move on. Marami pa naman daw diyan eh. Kapag mahal mo, hindi mo hahayaan mo mawala at gagawin mo lahat para magtagumpay uli.When you love someone, you KEEP. Mahal mo e.

 Anyway, it is a never-ending debate. LET GO mo man o iKEEP basta nagrogrow ang love, edi nagrgrow. Kung mahal mo ang isang tao, edi mahal mo. At the end of the day, it is always your choice on how to show your love to your someone. Is it either by keeping or letting go ? Better, if that someone is included in you decision making. Communication saves all. At the end, if it is not your choice, it should be both of you’s choice. 

 Oo, nakakapressure kasi. Simple & little things lang yan pero saan ba nagsisimula ang malaki ? Sa maliliit na bagay. Na naipon at yun !  Oo, ang post ko ay about sa letting go pero I don’t look at it as that way.

 Holding on. Yet, giving space.

 Atleast, if there is something that we realize in the middle, masasabi namin yun at we have to talk about it. If we decided to continue, then we will. But if we decided to let go, even it is SO HARD, then we have to.

 You can’t expect everything to stay as it is.

 So .. enjoy, cherish, value & yeah, know the basics of life. You should always know where you stand. Always think twice. If it is either time to let go or it is still for you to hold on. Always remember when you can still carry on or when you’ve had enough.

 It is always within. From you. So, always, Your choice.